Putnam County’s 2007 Homecoming Grand Marshal
is honest, reliable, diligent, loyal and modest. Because he
has an esteemed reputation for quietly accepting responsibility and
rejecting credit, few people really know how much of an impact he
has made in our school and community.
Born and raised in tiny Williams, Iowa, over seven decades ago,
Duane Behrens embodies the best of rural America. Following
high school graduation, he met Shirla Mardick from nearby Iowa
Falls.
Married on December 17, 1955, they became parents of Randy, Rhonda,
Rita, and twins, Rob and Rachelle.
While Duane
did high quality construction work, building and remodeling homes,
Shirla was a faithful wife and stay-at-home mom. The children
were instilled with the same strong values of their parents.
In the spring of 1964, the family moved to Unionville where Duane
continued his construction occupation. The family moved to
Kirksville in 1969, so Shirla could attend Northeast Missouri State
University (now Truman State University).
They returned to Unionville in 1976, and Shirla was hired by Putnam
County R-l Schools to be a librarian. Because she loved
reading books, she was ideally suited for the position. Her
cheerful disposition and friendly smile touched many young lives,
and she was highly respected by everyone. While his wife was
educating young Midgets, Duane proceeded to earn an admirable
reputation in construction. Their younger children attended
the Unionville schools.
When Kay and I leased the Lake Thunderhead Marina for three years
in 1982, we contracted Duane to build a dock for use by boaters
using the marina and a patio west of what was then a small
building. The dock still stands. In 1985, the Lake
Thunderhead Association enclosed the patio and made it a dining
room. Folks who dine in that far west room are sitting under
the roof that Duane built.
As the years passed, Duane became an avid Midget fan of all boy and
girl sports. He, and often Shirla, were permanent fixtures in
the stands. His kids collectively say, “Dad sure loves those
Midgets!”
When he’s not watching his beloved Midgets, his recreational hours
are spent hunting, fishing, playing cards, traveling, and spending
time with family. A member of the National Rifle Association,
he is an intense supporter of our people’s Right to Bear
Arms. But when it comes to hunting and fishing, he is a true
sportsman.
Duane became a charter member of the Unionville Lions Club in 1987,
and he’s consistently put his heart
and
soul into the club’s many activities. After the fledging club
gained custody of the existing Lions Building in the City Park for
Monday night bingo games, his construction expertise directed
fellow Lions in remodeling the building.
A few years later, he again was called upon to guide volunteer
Lions in replacing a dilapidated shelter in the City Park with a
beautiful Lions Shelter. It now serves as the community’s
farmer’s market and is used for many gatherings. During the
Putnam County Fair, bingo is held there.
In addition to his being the “fix it guy” when the club needs a
construction master, Duane also serves in several other capacities
that benefit our community. He was bingo caller on Monday
nights for twelve consecutive years, a record that will probably
never be broken. He also calls at the Lucerne and Putnam
County Fairs.
Supporting and encouraging our youth has always been the main
purpose of the Lions Club. In that regard, Duane is the first
to help our youth. In 1987, the club began a tradition of
supporting deserving football players who were selected to play in
the Missouri Lions All-Star Football Classic each summer.
Through all those years, he has devoted countless hours selling
advertisements to local citizens to get our players there.
And when Midget band members were picked to be members of the
Missouri All-Star Band, he did the same for them.
Duane and Shirla were inseparable. If you saw one, the other
was usually nearby. That commitment to each other naturally
led to Duane’s convincing Shirla to be the first female to become a
member of the all-male Lions Club. Daughter Rita soon
followed.
When Wally and Bev Sutton moved to Midget Country, Duane and Shirla
were the first citizens to welcome them. “We found them to be
friendly and kind,” Wally says. “Duane was helpful in getting
my Lions membership transferred. As the years passed,
we realized how much hard work Duane put into our community and
school.”
Recalling Duane’s steadfast devotion to youth, Wally adds, “Duane
consistently helps with the After Prom parties. I don’t think
he’s missed a year.” After she became a member of Lions,
Shirla was there, too.
On November 30, 2004, just a few days shy of their 49th wedding
anniversary, Shirla passed away. Though she had suffered from
cancer for several years, that smile and indomitable spirit never
left her. During her illness, I remember her bringing
delicious refreshments to several of us who were painting the
inside of the Lions Club.
Wherever the Midgets are playing their football games, Duane is
easy to find. One can usually spot him near the top of the
bleachers on the Midget side with his three cohorts, Max McKay, Sam
Neighbors and Gary Davis. Known as the “Fearsome Foursome”,
the four also attend the Missouri Lions All-Star Football Classic
each summer.
Gary Davis, who is not shy when it comes to making wisecrack
remarks, says of his traveling buddy, “Duane’s a diehard Midget
fan, but I wish he’d keep his mind more focused on Missouri.
He’s an Iowa Hawkeye fan!”
A few years ago, Duane sort of retired. But like many from
his generation, he couldn’t quit entirely. He continues to do
part-time construction work. Also, using his exceptional
carpentry skills, he has made many beautiful wood pieces for his
family to enjoy in their homes.
Besides remaining extremely active in the Lions Club, he serves on
the Unionville Special Road District and Unionville Park
Board. He is especially proud of his children and visits them
often.
Randy is the fire chief in Kirksville. He and his wife,
Shelly, have four children. Rhonda is a school teacher in
Brookfield. She and her husband, John McKenzie, have two
children. Rita is assistant vice president of the Farmers
Bank of Northern Missouri in Unionville. Married to Kenny
Ingersoll, they have two children. Of the twins, Rachelle and
her husband, Nick Peyton, and two children live in Illinois.
Rob followed in his father’s footsteps and pursued a career in
construction. He lives in Unionville and has a son.
Duane occasionally helps Rob.
Eleven grandchildren and three great-grandchildren keep “Papa”
Behrens busy. Young Jaren Ingersoll and “Papa” share a
birthday…70 years apart.
A humble man, Duane has done more for our community and school than
most people ever dreamed of doing. Being our 2007 Homecoming
Grand Marshal is an honor he richly deserves. I speak for our
community when I say, “THANK YOU,
DUANE!